To Be Loved was formed to give children a voice navigating family separation whilst going through the Family Court or Federal Circuit Court.

We aim to improve their experience through educating a broad range of professionals engaged in this legal system.

Together, we can make change to children and the impacts surrounding family separation.

Whilst the age of children experiencing family breakdowns can impact the way in which they react to the separation, most children are temporarily challenged by multiple changes and experience psychological distress in the months immediately prior to and after separation, including significant sadness, worry and sometimes fear.

(Laumann-Billings & Emery, 2000).

Finding ways to support children navigating these emotions is necessary to limit the consequences on their mental health in the long run. To Be Loved Network’s media intends to provide support and comfort to children and their families.

The Facts

  • Approximately 25% of Australian children will experience parental divorce or separation prior to age 18.

    (Australian Bureau of Statistics, 2010)

  • Children with divorced parents are more likely to have problems in social and close relationships.

    (Amato & Keith, 1991b: Hetherington, 1997).

  • Children are more likely to experience behaviour issues when parents divorce when the child is between the age of 7 and 14-years-old.

    (University College London)

“Divorce shreds the muscles of our hearts so that they will hardly beat without a struggle.”

Source: We Were Liars by E. Lockhart

Our Approach

We use a powerful platform of media to develop educational media content and resources about the issues children face while their families navigate relational breakdown or fighting via the family law system. The development of media content and educational resources for use in educating Family and Federal Circuit Court Judges, the National Judicial College of Australia, Independent Children’s Lawyers, Family Consultants, Regulated Children’s Contact Centres, Social Scientists, Police Personnel, Victorian Legal Aid and the family law litigants.

To Be Loved has a deep concern to help parents, lawyers who act for families in divorce or separation proceedings, family counsellors, and the family law judicial system, to better understand children’s feelings, emotional needs, psychological distress in the midst of the break-up of their parents’ relationship and to effect change that prevents children from becoming damaged adults.

Development of up to date educational media content and resources to better educate parents to take into account the pressure on their children, enable their children to be heard, give a voice to their distress and positively influence parent’s behaviour to reduce the emotional harm to children.

 
 

What?

To Be Loved was formed to give children a voice navigating parental separation whilst going through the Family Court or Federal Circuit Court. To Be Loved intends to improve their experience through educating a broad range of professionals engaged in this legal system.

Why?

To Be Loved was formed to give children a voice navigating parental separation whilst going through the Family Court or Federal Circuit Court. To Be Loved intends to improve their experience through educating a broad range of professionals engaged in this legal system.

Who?

We are a dedicated team of professionals who provide our services pro bono to achieve To Be Loved’s core MISSION is to give children a voice navigating parental separation and divorce as a result of family breakdown.

Meet The Board

  • Nancy Bassett

    CHAIRPERSON

  • Darren Mort

    DIRECTOR

  • Anne Schuster

    DIRECTOR

  • Stella Laletas

    DIRECTOR

  • Charmaine Curtain

    DIRECTOR

  • Annette Maloney

    DIRECTOR

  • Joplin Higgins

    DIRECTOR